Let's start with a pop quiz: What does it mean to judge?
You don't have to answer that right now; that's what we're going to
look at in this study.
Have you ever sought to confront wrong-doing, or reprove someone,
only to be met with, "You can't judge me!" or "Christians aren't
supposed to judge!" What does God's Word say about judging?
When the subject of judging comes up among believers, the first
place most Christians go to is Matthew 7:1.
Matthew 7:1.
Judge not, that ye be not judged.
Most people will stop right there, and conclude, "Jesus said don't
judge." But we've got to read on to see this in context, so that we can
determine what he was really saying.
Matthew 7:2.
For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with the
measure which ye measure with, it shall be measured to you again.
And why beholdest thou the mote that is in thy brother's eye, but
considerest not the beam that is in thy own eye?
Or how wilt thou say to thy brother, Let me pull out the mote out of
thy eye; and, behold, a beam [is] in thy own eye?
5 Thou hypocrite, first cast out the beam out of thy own eye; and then
shalt thou see clearly to cast out the mote out of thy brother's eye.
Now it becomes clear. Jesus wasn't saying, "Don't judge." He was
saying, "Don't judge your brother without first judging yourself." His
exhortation was to remove the plank or beam from your own eye first, so
that you can see clearly to remove the speck of sawdust from your
brother's eye.
Part of the problem we have with judging is that when people say
"judge" they usually mean or imply "condemn." But judging means much
more than that.
"To judge" means "to make a distinction" or "to separate." You
judge every day, in every aspect of life. You had to make a judgment in
order to decide what clothes to wear today, or what to eat. You are
also responsible for judging between truth and error.
When we look at scripture on judging, it is important that we pay
attention to who is being addressed.
Romans 2:1.
Therefore thou art inexcusable, O man, whoever thou art that judgest:
for in that thou judgest another, thou condemnest thyself; for thou
that judgest doest the same things.
At first glance, this verse seems to forbid judging, and to warn
that when you judge someone else, you are condemning yourself. But who
is it talking to? Those who judge others for doing the same things they
are doing. If you fall into that category, then you are indeed
condemning yourself when you judge someone else! But this is not a
blanket prohibition against judging.
What God wants is not for us to avoid judging, but instead to judge
rightly.
Luke 7:40-43.
And Jesus answering said to him, Simon, I have somewhat to say to thee.
And he saith, Master, speak.
There was a certain creditor who had two debtors: the one owed five
hundred pence, and the other fifty.
And when they had nothing to pay, he frankly forgave them both. Tell me
therefore, which of them will love him most?
Simon answered and said, I suppose that [he], to whom he forgave most.
And he said to him, Thou hast rightly judged.
In this passage, Jesus invited Simon the Pharisee to make a
judgment, then commended him when he judged rightly. God wants us to
make right, or righteous, judgments.
How do we do this? Let's start by looking at how not to judge.
John 7:21-24.
Jesus answered and said to them, I have done one work, and ye all
marvel.
Moses therefore gave to you circumcision; (not because it is from
Moses, but from the fathers;) and ye on the sabbath circumcise a man.
If a man on the sabbath receiveth circumcision, that the law of Moses
should not be broken; are ye angry at me, because I have restored a man
to sound health on the sabbath?
Judge not according to the appearance, but judge righteous judgment.
Here Jesus answered some of his critics who had judged his works,
but not righteously. What did they do wrong? They judged by mere
appearance.
Our goal must not be just to judge, but rather to "judge righteous
judgment."
Proverbs 14:12 shows us another way we're not supposed to judge.
There is a way which seemeth right to a man, but the end of it
[are] the ways of death.
It's very easy for me to establish my own standard for right and
wrong, and to judge others according to that standard -- but that, too,
is judging wrongly. If we are going to "judge righteous judgment," we
must not judge by man's standard, which is flawed to begin with, but by
God's standard.
Within the Church, disputes will arise from time to time. Settling
these disputes requires judgment.
I Corinthians 6:1-4.
Dare any of you, having a matter against another, go to law before the
unjust, and not before the saints?
Do ye not know that the saints shall judge the world? and if the world
shall be judged by you, are ye unworthy to judge the smallest matters?
Know ye not that we shall judge angels? how much more things that
pertain to this life?
If then ye have judgments of things pertaining to this life, set them
to judge who are least esteemed in the church.
Ask those who are least esteemed in the Church to judge things
pertaining to this life? Whoa! That's a different way of looking at
things!
If a dispute between God's people goes to the secular courts, to
the legal system, who does the judging? Usually, men and women who
don't have the spirit of God. By what standard do they judge? By God's
standard, or by the imperfect standards of this world? By the world's
standards, of course. And what kind of judgment can be expected? A
godly decision, or a worldly one? A worldly decision, contrary to the
Word of God, is almost guaranteed.
In the Church, it should not be a big matter for any believer to
settle a dispute or render judgment in a matter pertaining to the
things of this life -- if the church is functioning properly, and not
according to the world's standards.
I Corinthians 6:5-6.
I speak to your shame. Is it so, that there is not a wise man among
you? no, not one that shall be able to judge between his brethren?
But brother goeth to law with brother, and that before unbelievers.
Instead of insisting on believers judging between believers, the
saints in Corinth were running to the world to settle their disputes.
What kind of witness is that to the world: two Christians having it out
in front of unbelievers? What does it say about our maturity as
Christians when we can't be humble enough to be judged by our fellow
believers, but we will submit ourselves to the judgments of those who
do not obey God?
I Corinthians 6:7-8.
Now therefore there is utterly a fault among you, because ye go to law
one with another. Why do ye not rather take wrong? why do ye not rather
[allow yourselves to] be defrauded?
But, ye do wrong, and defraud, and that [your] brethren.
My flesh may cry out, "Wait a minute! Don't I have rights?" But the
Word of God testifies that it is better to lose what is rightfully ours
than to allow unbelievers to decide a dispute between believers.
I Corinthians 11:28.
But let a man examine himself, and so let him eat of [that] bread, and
drink of [that] cup.
Each of us is responsible before God to judge himself. Ask
yourself: Do I have a plank in my eye? Even if someone asks me for my
judgment, if I have a plank in my eye in that area, that is, if my walk
with God is not right in that area, I should either deal with my own
plank first, or decline to give judgment.
The real key to judging righteous judgment is self judgment. Start
with yourself; judge yourself first.
I Corinthians 11:31-32.
For if we would judge ourselves, we should not be judged.
But when we are judged, we are chastened by the Lord, that we should
not be condemned with the world.
When the Lord judges us, He disciplines us. It's much less painful
for you to judge yourself than for you to wait for the Lord to correct
you.
One of the fruit of the spirit is self-control. If a child does not
exercise self-control in an area, discipline must be imposed on him
externally for his own protection and growth. This may involve loss of
blessings or privileges, or even physical discipline. That's the same
way God works with us. If we exercise self-control ourselves, there is
no need for disciplinary action in our lives by God.
Ephesians 5:1-6.
Be ye therefore followers of God, as dear children;
And walk in love, as Christ also hath loved us, and hath given himself
for us an offering and a sacrifice to God for a sweetsmelling savour.
But immorality, and all uncleanness, or covetousness, let it not be
once named among you, as becometh saints;
Neither filthiness, nor foolish talking, nor jesting, which are not
seemly: but rather giving of thanks.
For this ye know, that no immoral, nor unclean person, nor covetous
man, who is an idolater, hath any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ
and of God.
Let no man deceive you with vain words: for because of these things
cometh the wrath of God upon the children of disobedience.
Let no one deceive you with empty words like, "Don't be
judgmental," or, "You can't judge me."
Ephesians 5:7.
Be ye not therefore partakers with them.
If you don't exercise righteous judgment, how will you know who or
what to be a partner with?
Ephesians 5:8-10.
For ye were once darkness, but now [are ye] light in the Lord: walk as
children of light:
(For the fruit of the Spirit [is] in all goodness and righteousness and
truth;)
Proving what is acceptable to the Lord.
Everything doesn't please God! You've got to judge between what is
of God, and what is not!
Ephesians 5:11.
And have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but
rather reprove [them].
How do you expose darkness? By shedding the light of God's Word on
it!
Ephesians 5:12-17.
For it is a shame even to speak of those things which are done by them
in secret.
But all things that are reproved are revealed by the light: for
whatever doth reveal is light. {reproved: or, discovered}
Wherefore he saith, Awake thou that sleepest, and arise from the dead,
and Christ shall give thee light. {he: or, it}
See then that ye walk circumspectly, not as fools, but as wise,
Redeeming the time, because the days are evil.
Wherefore be ye not unwise, but understanding what the will of the Lord
[is].
If we are going to be able to understand what the will of the Lord
is, if we are going to walk in wisdom, we must "judge righteous
judgment."
Ephesians 5:18-21.
And be not drunk with wine, in which is excess; but be filled with the
Spirit;
Speaking to yourselves in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing
and making melody in your heart to the Lord;
Giving thanks always for all things to God and the Father in the name
of our Lord Jesus Christ;
Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God.
What is to be my attitude if someone else in the body of Christ
judges me? I am to submit myself to that person in the fear of God. But
what if that person has a plank in their eye? What if they are not
walking in a godly way in the area in which they are reproving me? If
my ultimate subjection is to God, then I will subject myself to His
Word, even when it is given to me in less than desirable circumstances.
We must be careful not to use the "plank" in someone else's eye as
an excuse for not accepting unwanted reproof from God's Word. If you
look hard enough, you can always find a plank in the eye of someone you
don't want to listen to. None of us walks perfectly before God.
But nobody has a plank everywhere in their body! Don't look for
weakness or disobedience in one area of a person's life to use as an
excuse for ignoring their godly judgment in another area.
The best rule for receiving reproof from other believers is this:
Line up what you hear with the Word of God, and act accordingly.
I Corinthians 4:5a.
5 Therefore judge nothing before the time, until the Lord shall come...
Does this mean, as some have said, that we are not supposed to
judge until the Lord returns? Keep reading!
I Corinthians 4:5b.
...who will both bring to light the hidden things of darkness, and will
make known the counsels of the hearts: and then shall every man have
praise from God.
What are we not supposed to judge right now? Men's hearts! God has
not authorized us to judge other people's hearts and minds. However, we
are responsible before God to judge the words and deeds of those within
the body of Christ. By what standard? By the Word of God.
Yes, we are to judge. And all of our judgment is to begin with
judgment of ourselves. We need to judge whether or not we are in the
faith; whether or not our actions are godly; whether or not our
thoughts are godly; whether or not our motives are godly.
We must not be satisfied just to judge; we must "judge righteous
judgment."